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Fees pushed you over the edge? 5 steps to break up with your bank
Michael Kurko October 31, 2025 at 5:29 PM
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Fees pushed you over the edge? 5 steps to break up with your bank (James Worrell via Getty Images)
Feeling fed up with your bank? You're not alone. Americans paid nearly $5 billion in overdraft fees alone in 2024, ATM fees just hit a 27-year high and 41% of people hit with surprise fees are closing their accounts. Ready to join them?
Breaking up with your bank isn't as easy as cutting up your debit card and walking away, however. Switching direct deposits, subscriptions and bills on auto-pay to a new account can be tricky. Even one missed payment can lead to overdraft or late fees — and even ding your credit.
Fortunately, by carefully following a few key steps, you can ditch your old bank and start fresh with one that offers higher rates, stronger protections and everything else you're looking for.
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1. Hunt down a better bank (and account)
You wouldn't move out of your home without having a new place to go. By the same token, you might not want to open up an account at a new bank before thinking about leaving your old one.
This is your chance to upgrade, so don't settle for more of the same. Here's what to look for when shopping around:
Annual percentage yields. To maximize your money, consider digital banks and accounts offering high rates that outpace inflation with regular compounding.
Fees and balance requirements. Look for accounts with no monthly maintenance fees, low overdraft charges and no minimum balance traps.
Easy access. Make sure your new bank is supported by a strong network of ATMs and branches (if you need them) in your area, and the customer support you want.
Digital tools. A user-friendly mobile app with mobile deposit, bill pay and real-time alerts can make it easier to manage your money on your schedule.
Robust perks. Without the overhead of brick-and-mortar banks, online banks can offer higher rates and useful signup bonuses, while credit unions may provide more personalized service.
Remember what frustrated you with your old bank, and prioritize those fixes for your next one.
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2. Map out your payments and deposits
A smooth transition to your new bank begins with understanding which transactions are connected to your current accounts. Review your bank statements from the last two or three months and list out:
Direct deposits — including paychecks, government benefits or side-hustle or gig income
Recurring autopays — utility bills, housing expenses, insurance premiums, credit card bills, streaming services and gym memberships
Random charges — annual subscriptions, quarterly dues or irregular bills that could be easy to forget
This "money map" helps you avoid leaving anything behind at your old bank. It's easy to remember monthly bills, but it's those once-a-year surprises — software renewal, insurance premiums — that could trip you up.
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3. Move your money over
With your list in hand, it's time to connect all those payments and deposits to your new bank:
First up: Your paycheck. Ask your employer or benefits provider to send your direct deposit to your new account, and make sure it actually shows up there.
Next: Switch your autopays. Gradually move over bills, subscriptions and other recurring charges to your new debit card or account number. Prioritize your rent or mortgage, power and water bills and other basics, and then tackle streaming services and smaller subscriptions.
Finally: Leave yourself a buffer. Keep enough cash in your old account to cover payments you might've missed. Run both accounts side by side for at least one full billing cycle to ensure nothing slips through the cracks.
Think of this step as overlapping leases when moving apartments: You want both sets of keys until you're confident everything is in the right place.
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4. Watch for gotchas and forgotten bills
No matter how careful you are, mistakes can happen. Here are four sneaky fees that could pop up — and how to spot them before they strike:
Overdraft charges. Even with a buffer, one overlooked autopay can drain your old account dry. Many banks still charge $30 to $35 per overdraft — and they can hit you with several in one day.
Minimum balance fees. Many traditional accounts waive monthly charges if you can maintain a certain balance. Know what that threshold is, and keep your balance above it until you close it out.
Outstanding checks. Wait until any paper checks you've written have cleared. A check that bounces after you close an account can be a major headache.
Early closure penalties. Some banks charge fees if you close an account within the first 90 to 180 days. Check your bank's policy before pulling the plug.
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5. Cut ties with your old accounts
Once you're confident everything's flowing through your new account,it's time to make the breakup official. You'll want to handle this carefully to avoid any messy surprises:
Call your old bank. Call or visit your local branch and request to have your accounts closed. It's helpful to also put it in writing, listing out each account number and your new bank and account for remaining balances.
Get it in writing. Ask for written proof that your old accounts are closed with a $0 balance. Save these documents for your records and tax returns.
Toss your old cards and checks. Cut up your old debit cards and shred any unused checks. Scissors work fine too, just be sure to cut through sensitive info, including card chips or strips.
Watch for leftover charges. Monitor your new account and credit reports for the next few months to catch any stray charges that can bounce back to haunt you.
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Bottom line: Moving on doesn't have to cost you
As with any relationship, breaking up with your bank can feel intimidating. But this one doesn't have to hurt.
Open your new account, map out how your money flows, move things over in stages, stay alert for surprise fees and close out everything with proof it's complete.
Do it right, and you'll come out ahead with stronger rates, lower fees, better apps, more useful digital tools and banking that best fits your goals.
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About the writer
Michael Kurko is a finance writer and editor who covers investing, real estate, personal budgeting and financial literacy. His expertise has been featured in The Balance, Investopedia, U.S. News & World Report, Forbes Advisor and FinanceBuzz, among other top financial publications. In addition to his work in finance, Michael is also a freelance book editor and fiction writer. He strives to make complex money topics clear and approachable so readers can make informed decisions and build lasting financial confidence.
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